Post content inside a query loop loading everything at once

I have about 150 videos that are embedded using FV player into standard post content.

When I place the post content element inside of a query loop it starts loading all the videos together. When I check the network tab there are tons MBs being used as it downloads all the videos at the same time.

I am opening the query looped item in a pop-up but since the page takes forever to download all the stuff it’s ruining the experience.

This has been posted before here. Performance problem in query loop and popup

Is there a way around this?